BUSINESS, LIFE LESSONS, SELF-IMPROVEMENT

What Defines You in 2020? How your Reparative Solutions Make Life Fucking Better

Welcome to the real world – We’re all grown-ups here… Let’s just say it… “Real shit happens and those hard lessons nudge us to do better…” S.L.Zapata  What defines you? It’s not your hair and makeup It’s not your job and career It’s not your business or entrepreneurship It’s not your family or friends It’s …

BUSINESS, LIFE LESSONS, SELF-IMPROVEMENT

“Project You”- During COVID19 Social Distancing [podcast included]

The idea to write this blog post came to me as I was in my home… in my bathroom – recording my podcast Middle Finger Happiness Don’t judge – where I worked today – My bathroom Why my bathroom?  It was the only place in my home where I could be left alone to do some …

LIFE LESSONS, SELF-IMPROVEMENT

Commitment isn’t a feeling

A guide to rediscovering your future-self   We’ve all heard the saying, “It’s just one day at a time…“ I disagree. I say, “It’s one commitment at a time.” Hell, I will take it even further… “It’s a conscious choice, decision, and selection at a time.” All of us experience things in life that will …

INFLUENCER, LIFE LESSONS, SELF-IMPROVEMENT, SMARTY-ASS QUOTES

You got a warning. You ignored it.

Our conscious tells us not to do that thing …  that stupid thing yet we ignore it : :              You got a warning – You ignored it – : : What would happen if you decided to listen to your conscience for the next year? : : What sort of things could you stop fucking …

BUSINESS, LIFE LESSONS, SELF-IMPROVEMENT

6 Things Ambitious Women Do Differently When They’re in Kickass Relationships

1.] They still have a lot of other things going on besides you.   2.] They won’t ask you to choose between them and your other priorities because they’re too busy and focused on having priorities of their own.    3.] A good conversation in their eyes doesn’t revolve around how much money you make …